I recently asked my boyfriend if he was cheating on me. In the back of my head I kind of knew but didn't want to ask fear of knowing the truth. At my old apartment his Ex would drop him off or he would go places with her. That was happening one too many times for me so I finally just had to ask. Anyway his answer was yes but not sexually. WTF does that mean? I kind of know, but I'm not quite sure. I would like someone else's opinion on what that means. When I asked him that question he paused so was expecting him to say "yes, I have been cheating on you", but then he said not sexually. That still hurt me. I had to walk out for a moment because I didn't want him to see me cry . It's just not fair!!! I do a lot for him and she reaps all the benefits of spending time with him, going places with him, etc. I love him sooo much that I'm afraid to let him go. The situation is stressing me out. I don't know what to do. Love is blind…….that is sooo true. Is it ok to be friends with your Ex? If so to what extent is ok?