before you talk, i knowww there was just a thread about women dating shorter people. i felt like starting a new one :]
so, i'm 6'3''...what up what up. hahaha.
i'm 18, i don't know if that matters but i'm letting you know anyway.
anywhoo, so my whole life i have only dated ONE person that was taller then me...which was just a couple of months ago actually...yes it was nice to be able to wrap my arms around his neck and be on my tippy toes and such to kiss him, but i realize that it won't happen a lot since i'm so damn tall.
and i dont really care about being able to wear heels or not, since i never really grew up wearing them and would basically kill myself if i attempted to start now. hahaa.
but so i'm kinda sorta talking to the guy who's 5'9''...and like i read on the other thread that some girls are worried about not being protected which i find absolute bs, i dont have to worry about that with him..he's way strong and like is basically the polar opposite of me, personality wise for sure.
well, i guess what i'm asking is like how to be confident with a shorter dude. [[im very self conscious and veryyy low self esteem about my height]] which turns into me being an awkward goof ball. hahaha, ah. and like...what do you girls do with your shorter dates/boyfriends and for you guys what would you do with a taller girl?
liiiike, i don't know how to not feel uncomfortable? do y'all just put your arm around his shoulders when walking or something? hahaha, stuff like that...because i wouldn't want to make the dude uncomfortable either...ya know?
well, pardon this damn essay...i have the tendency to ramble :] my bad.
thanks all :]
Hmmm..I can't say I've ever been with a taller girl...but it's always best to just be yourself, no matter Who you're with.
Being a tall girl is so hard!!! I'm 34 and I really can't help with advice. The world (& dating) isn't made for us. Good for you for trying!
How weird... you and your b/f sound almost exactly like me and my ex. Way cool.